Shy submissive girls are the best!
But I understand that you want to be careful. I am a dominant person, and I want to be on control but I always discuss the boundaries with the submissive girl.
I wil not do what you do not want. And when we first meet I will *not* use any props like whips or bonadage rope. I think we can get to that stage later.
The first meeting will be based on psychological dominance and lust as well. I will not inflict any pain.
We could first meet in a public place, so you can always leave if you want.
Sounds good?
If you want, I can send a picture with my face.